From Shy to Sensational: How to Conquer Nerves Before Your Session


Stepping in front of the camera for a boudoir photoshoot can be nerve-wracking for some, but fear not! Below we share six valuable tips to help you overcome nervousness and truly shine during your boudoir session. So, take a deep breath, relax, and let's dive in!


1. Embrace Communication

Open communication is key to easing nerves ahead of your shoot. We will send you a lot of emails (more on that in Tip #2)!  Also, we take the time to discuss your concerns and expectations, this helps us to better understand your vision and to create a comfortable environment at the studio.

(Pro tip: Be sure to complete your pre-shoot questionnaire!)

2. Pre-Shoot Guides and Information

Preparing for a boudoir photoshoot can make a world of difference in easing nerves. That's why we provide our clients with useful guides and information to help them know what to expect. From where to shop to what fit & style of lingerie works best for your body type, we've got you covered. Familiarize yourself with these guides beforehand to fully embrace the experience!

3. Trust Your Photographer

At our studio, building trust and connection with our clients is paramount. Remember, we are here to make you look and feel amazing. Trust in our expertise and creative vision. We have worked with clients of various backgrounds and body types, so rest assured that we know how to capture your best angles and showcase your beauty in the most flattering way possible.

4. Strike Your Pose

Posing is an art, and we are here to assist you every step of the way. During your session, we'll provide gentle guidance and suggestions to ensure you feel comfortable and confident in front of the camera. Our goal is to capture your unique personality and highlight your best features. Trust in our expertise and let us guide you through the poses that will make you feel and look amazing!

5. Curate Your Fav Playlist

Music has a magical way of setting the mood and helping us relax.  As we get you ready for your boudoir experience, we will ask you to share your music preferences with us!  Playing a personalized playlist during the photoshoot can help you get lost in the moment, allowing that beauty and confidence to shine through. 

6. Celebrate Your Inner Goddess

Take this opportunity to step out of your comfort zone and unleash your inner goddess. Trust in the process and allow yourself to enjoy the experience. Embrace your body, celebrate your individuality, and let your confidence shine through!


It is a natural feeling to be nervous, especially with boudoir. But don’t let it hold you back from embracing your beauty and expressing yourself. Have fun and get ready to witness your own sensational transformation!

Remember, we are here to guide and support you every step of the way.

Ryan Reid

Ryan Reid is the owner of Fairfield County, Connecticut’s Premier Boudoir studio.  It is his mission to help others on their journey to self-acceptance by creating a photography experience that allows them to feel connected and in love with their bodies & souls. He has been married 20+ years to his California babe and the proud father of four amazing kids — and one fur baby!

https://www.ryanreidboudoir.com
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